This is a short excerpt from Men’s Health Magazine:

Blue Balls: A defense, Instinct can backfire.

Putting off first-time sex may benefit your love life in the long run. A study in the Journal of Sex Research found that couples who waited before sleeping together reported higher relationship satisfaction after a year or longer together than those who jumped into bed more quickly. If a sexual bond forms before commitment or emotional intimacy, you might stay in a bad relationship longer than you otherwise would have. It is about making the right decision as a couple. 

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